why are girls expected to go through an experimental lesbian phase but u never hear about dudes goin gay for a while…
Guys definitely experiment but they are just too self conscious and self shaming to admit it. Even in small town alberta guys are jumpin on each other behind closed doors. Which makes it really fucking hilarious how homophobic they all are
Yeah, every guy who’s ever confided in me about their experiences or desires for such experiences have told me that they’re ashamed of it or that they think it’s something to feel ashamed of and I’m like, “wuu?” because everywhere else they’re all, “homophobia is wrong and there’s nothing wrong with being gay”, yet they can’t seem to accept any bisexuality within themselves..?!
I mean, w/e it’s their comfort and I guess it’s important they’re not shaming others for their sexualities. But, still, experimenting with other men doesn’t make you slam-dunk gay (or maybe it does- either way, it’s not wrong), and it’s not something they should feel ashamed about. I guess it’s, in great part, because of the types of people THEY associate with.